As part of a new series branded #Single&Special on our platform, we have decide to bring on this piece from a very wonderful brother. He simply x-rays the undue heat that comes from not being in relationship in our today's world especially among youths and teens using his personal experiences. We really believe you will learn from it and please feel free to join the conversation by dropping your comments on the comment box in any area you do not agree with his thoughts (or maybe you have something to add). Please bring it ON! Bon voyage!!!
A Letter To Myself And My Single Friends - @SazzieML
I know you have struggled over this subject severally for a very long time now and the struggle may apparently be in motion. What you actually want is indeed a good thing but I need you to understand that whatever is worth doing should be done rightly.
Irrespective of who you are, your age or where you come from, the focus on finding your significant other is an all time discourse for everyone. Like one rightly said it is the most important career decision anyone will ever make in life and as such I believe it should be done properly.
You will agree with me that the issue of being in a relationship is a topic that never leaves the conversation among young folks and if you are not in one in our today’s world, it begins to look like you need some medical attention. I really must say that the pressure that comes with this is totally alarming and uncalled for.
People act as if being single is a sort of predicament or disease and please don’t get me wrong relationships are not bad but I will encourage that rather than jumping into something that you may lose your peace about, it will be more appropriate when you are ready.
There is so much to enjoy when you are single and alone and I want you to embrace it as I have decided. It is a good time to learn, grow and prepare yourself for the future and I wouldn’t want you to blow all that up.
I have heard people say things like this is the best time to find someone to start life with and while there may be nothing wrong with that thought, I believe life is what we make out of it and not what someone else thinks we ought to make it. Besides, do you really need anyone to be by your side before you start living the life of your dreams?
Some persons have also said you can find true happiness when you are with someone but that is just a myth. If you can’t be a happy person when you are alone, am sorry to say that you may never be happy with anyone. I think it is far better to stay with no one than to stay with the wrong person. A wise man once said that those who fly high most times fly alone.
I have been a victim of this undue pressure and recently, I just felt that the way am going about this thing may bring a result that wouldn’t go well like we say in the local parlance. E no go go well at all!!! I needed to slow down to review the matter.
I began to say to myself that there is nothing to be stressed about my current relationship status and it doesn’t in any way hold me back from accomplishing great things. If you are single, you are just where God wants you to be and like I have decided until HE prompts me otherwise, I have no regrets and there is nothing to lose.
There are many things to look up in our life so don’t let this subject consume you and ruin what God has in store for you. Don’t let people pressure you into any relationship no matter what. Don’t let anyone tell you that there is a flaw with being single. There are many single boys and girls doing wonderful things with their lives. Don’t let anyone make you think being single is inferior. The fact that you are dating a boy or one girl doesn’t make you better or complete in any way compared to someone who is single.
Let me say that this is the best time as a young and vibrant youth or teen to use your potentials to bless God and bless lives and you would be a failure if you allow the pressure of being in a relationship ruin God’s agenda for you.
I know that God will lead us to the right person at the right time but until then keep preparing and garner some value to your life. I will see you at the top.
About Sazzie
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SAZZIE (real name Isesele Ezekiel Osaze) is a multi faceted young man who is a Media and Broadcast creative, Singer and Social catalyst. He is monikered the media legend by his friends because of his enthusiasm for using the media to transform lives.
He is a rare breed who is poised to positively affect the lives of as many that crosses his path using his gifts and potentials.
He has served as a Radio host for the top10 music chart on Rhemaworld Radio and He is currently the founder of a twitter brand (ipublicizeJesus) with over a thousand followers and a co-founder of other brands such as EdgeMag, Headline News Africa, Godmen League and The Social Media for Social Good initiative.
As a performing Christian act, Sazzie has blessed lives on different platforms with his rich vocals and anointed style of singing. He has a mission to bridge the gap between faith and entertainment and have platforms that will be referred to as most influential kingdom tools for social transformation tied to his belts.
He is a certified media and communications executive. Isesele Ezekiel Osaze can be reached on twitter (@SazzieML). Connect with him.
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Wow this article is Precious, awesome, excellent, acceptable, valuable, wonderful, exceptional, and first-class I don’t know what else to say again, I encourage everyone to take time and read it. also not only reading but think about it especially the youths and teens indeed #SingleAndSpecialSeries may the Lord blessed and increase the writer of this article in all sights also reward his effort for taking his time to put this up hey brother keep it up one Love.
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This is great. Thumbs up Osaze. I'm not down with this dating thing. It's more of a distraction. So many youth spend their time in this dating biz which is most times futile and as a result waste their years, money and effort. When you carry out operations on your own outside God's plan, the end is a disaster. Have patience, God with God and at the end you will enjoy marital bliss.
ReplyDeleteBoss Sazzie! na true your talk. Make you carry your boys gum body ooo. Well done.....
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Thanks to Sazzie for bringing this on this week. Our next episode comes up next weekend. Its controversial and mind blowing and am sure you will like it..........
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